Basic Principles: Don't get "Hitched"!

I saw the romantic comedy-drama movie Hitch the movie that came out in 2005, 15 years ago I was a teenager and on top of that I had a different perspective of the Movie Understanding it and even the plot as I got older because when I was a teenager I was more into the lines and even the intense scenes and the development of it, the semi-suspense of how everything was going to spill was very interesting. Luckily Hitch was an honest guy who just doesn't want to tell him explicitly what he does and low and behold Sara did not want to explicitly tell what she does. As she is a "self-professed" realist as she can be cynical about things which she has been confronted about at times by her fellow co-workers. So much has developed and even critics has the movie some fair reviews about the story and how they overcame the cliche of romantic movies.
 


The start of the movie had very interesting opening where he would plan the simple procedures as he would say "Basic Principles" as he would take simple steps to impressing your love interest. The steps were how to plan a date and even how to have productive conversations on the date. Especially about the quality on the date instead of the appearance of the woman and even being distracted in any way. Luckily following the procedures let to a few successful relationships and even the success of his Date Doctor job. Eventually down the line of the Movie he was running into challenges of his own that got in the way of his success of being a successful date doctor, and even him wanting to gain a relationship of his own.  So the Movie had a very interesting plot.

So To explain A few of the characters I would like to explain a bit of the characters and start of explaining one of them:

 

Albert Brennaman he was the awkward character who is an accountant managing taxes. One of the women he worked for became the woman named Allegra Cole who he became interested in. The big Quote in the scene where he was trying to be impressive was "What is the objective?" seemed like a drill sergeant Hitch sounded like at first but was more of trying to build the confidence and apparently that what it seemed like it was all about. The answer was "Shock and Awe." The character in the movie where Albert was showing courage in the beginning where he tried to support His clients decisions and even trying to support her own decisions and even be encouraging to give your workers advice and not take them His boss objected against it and then led Albert to Counter and then quit his job. So as the movie develops he fights to get his love despite all the controversy surrounding him. To explain the character towards the end he transitioned from an Awkward man who was hesitant to ambitious and know what he wanted and wanted to go for it, especially after an intense conversation he had with Hitch who was trying to help him.

 

Sara who was a columnist was very reserved about romance and not open to dating. Even though she would appear at a club with her glasses and business outfit which was interesting why she would be in a Social club and be reserved so Here Comes a guy talking to her and keep trying to make verbal advances towards her, but eventually Hitch came and fended off the advances for Sara from the other guy luckily with his talks and even with his well delivered approachable attitude, and luckily they began going on a few dates and had a bit of fun, and began to build a relationship but complications did ensue in the development in the movie.



The title character Hitch well his real name Alex Hitchens, is a date doctor unfortunately in his college years he had a dating experience meeting a fellow female college student started dating her and unfortunately faced a big heartbreak when he found his girlfriend as he was out in the rain involved in an infidelity, apparently was completely heartbroken and devastated but luckily took it to a huge learning experience where he grows from it and passes on the similar experience in his career and even onto his clients as well and it has great how he supported his clients and even got a stab at talking to his love interests in the movie even in a scene where he learned and even took a stab at taking a unique approach at one of the women in a bar and even after trying to encourage one of his friends to talk to one of the women which displayed a bit of who he was, and Albert Brennaman heading towards the end of the movie was the opposite of it.
 


There was a big antagonist in the movie which was Vance Munson and Hitch meets the guy as Vance Munson lures him into helping him. But here is the catch though he was interested in a woman and tries to buy lingerie for a woman but really just wants to sleeps with her and ditch, and Hitch decline to work with him declaring he works with clients that is interested in an authentic relationship. So he still managed to get intimate and then ditch her hence throwing Hitch under the bus and giving the source to Hitch's love interest Sara. As Sara works for the Columnist and got news on Allegra Cole and even how she hooked up with a guy like Albert Brennaman. Unfortunately it did looked as if he was a corrupt date doctor to get men into bed with women they want to and then ditch. But luckily it wasn't the case.


The Movie Hitch had a ton of lessons which every character in the movie had different characters and even different personalities and focus and obstacles. The Perspective really changed like I mentioned earlier and well Hitch is a big term as it was the title of the movie and even the title character Hitch was hitched by many challenges and apparently adversity where we can sometimes be reserved but doesn't mean we are deceitful in any way and apparently the antagonist character was quite an obstacle and even not blowing confidentiality of his job was another challenge he had and unfortunately led to an altercation with Sara, even with Albert having strong feelings for his love interest and even was willing to do whatever and even was questioning Hitch's confidence and even advice with especially with Love being part of his job as a date doctor.
  

The title of my blog Don't get Hitched really explains we can't get held down by our challenge and even like where leadership comes from especially between a love relationship. Even are you willing to do whatever it takes to go for what you are going for. Being Quarantined has been a real challenge and being part of a great Pure Match Group video chat has really helped me see the movie Hitch in a new perspective. I really feel like we can be bogged down by even our past and be destroyed by it, or let it build the experience and help you grow humbly as well like Hitch did. Even in a romantic movie it comes from battling obstacles and even battling our inner demons as well. Inner demons can contain nervousness, doubt, anger, frustrations even assumptions where those challenges can lead to bigger conflicts. But our inner peace can produce success, confidence, and even not being stooped to so many levels that you don't want to be dragged down to which being stooped to a negative level is a struggle I have, and it is not easy to deal with. Why hold back and get dragged down where you can be stronger and rise above, and even rise against negative circumstances and even people as well, and adversity?